10 Questions To Ask Your Wedding Celebrant

Choosing the right wedding celebrant can make all the difference in creating a ceremony that feels uniquely you. To help you find the perfect match, here are ten essential questions to ask your potential celebrant:

• Are you available on our wedding date?

• What inspired you to become a celebrant?

• Can you share examples of ceremonies you’ve officiated?

• How do you personalize the ceremony for each couple?

• Do you handle all the legal requirements?

• What is your process for working with couples?

• Can we include cultural, spiritual, or family traditions in our ceremony?

• Do you offer additional services? Vow-writing coach? Wedding-day pep talk?

• What happens if you’re unable to officiate on our wedding day?

• What are your fees, and what’s included?

Finding Your Perfect Celebrant

Your celebrant is more than just a box to tick on your wedding to-do list. They’re the storyteller who’ll bring your love story to life and set the tone for your “I dos.” By asking these questions, you’ll know if you’ve found the one (the celebrant, that is).

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5 Tips For Writing Your Wedding Vows

Writing your own wedding vows is a beautiful way to make your ceremony deeply personal and unforgettable. But let’s be honest—it can also feel a bit intimidating. Here are five tips to help you craft vows that are as heartfelt and unique as your love story.

1. Start with a Brain Dump. Grab a pen, your favourite beverage, and start jotting down anything and everything you love about your partner. These notes will be your treasure trove of inspiration.

2. Keep It Short and Sweet. Aim for 1-2 minutes of speaking time.

3. Balance Humour and Heart. Your vows should feel like you. If your relationship thrives on laughter, don’t be afraid to sprinkle in some jokes. Just balance the lighthearted moments with genuine emotion.

4. Speak to Your Partner, Not the Crowd. Write as if you’re talking directly to them and let your love shine through.

5. Practice, But Don’t Overthink It. Rehearse your vows out loud a few times to get comfortable with them. That said, don’t aim for perfection. A little wobble in your voice or a few happy tears will only make your words more real and heartfelt.

A Final Note of Encouragement

Remember, your vows are a reflection of your unique connection. There’s no right or wrong way to write them. What matters most is that they come from the heart.

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Overcoming Wedding Jitters During the Ceremony

It’s normal to feel nervous before you say “I do.” Here are 10 tips to keep calm and enjoy the moment:

• Practice Deep Breathing. Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four. Repeat until you feel grounded.

• Focus on Your Partner. Remember, this is about the two of you—lock eyes and let the rest fade away.

• Trust Your Celebrant. They’ve got your back.

• Eat and Hydrate. Have a snack and drink some water beforehand.

• Practice Your Vows. You’ve got this!

• Use Humour. A little laugh can break the tension. Don’t be afraid to smile or share a lighthearted moment.

• Surround Yourself with Support. Lean on your wedding party for good vibes.

• Visualize Success. Picture everything going smoothly—positive imagery works wonders.

• Keep Things in Perspective. Even if something small goes wrong, it’ll just be a great story to tell later.

• Enjoy the Moment. This is your day. Take a deep breath, smile, and soak in all the love around you.

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